The Audacity of Your Decisions

You knew better. You did it anyway. Now what?

The Audacity of Your Decisions is a sharp-tongued, sarcastic, and surprisingly honest look at the questionable choices we make even when common sense was standing right there waving at us.

Across 35 chapters, K.M. Lewis takes on bad relationships, ignored red flags, weak boundaries, people-pleasing, overexplaining, emotional availability, work, friendship, self-trust, starting over, knowing when to leave—and the spectacular human talent for recognizing a lesson and occasionally deciding to learn it one more damn time.

This is not a book about becoming perfectly healed, endlessly positive, or so emotionally evolved that nothing bothers you anymore.

Absolutely not.

This is about recognition.

Recognizing when attention is not intention.

When loyalty is actually fear.

When a rough patch has become a lifestyle.

When “being understanding” has gotten completely out of hand.

When you already know the answer and simply do not like it.

With humor, hard truths, and the kind of commentary that sounds like the friend who loves you enough to say, “Baby… what the fuck are we doing?”, Lewis reminds readers that growth does not require pretending you never made a mess.

It requires learning from it.

If you have ever sent the paragraph, ignored the red flag, gone back after announcing you were done, explained yourself to somebody who understood you the first damn time, or made a decision you later had to sit down and discuss with yourself…

this book is for you.